First, you should exact read the scenario notes / victory conditions!
If you look through the corresponding scenarios with exit VB´s,
www.commandsandcolors.net/napoleonics/ar...al-rule-exit-vb.html
you will surely notice, that there are different possibilities.
1. A unit must be ordered and must exit during moving phase.
2. A unit must be ordered, but may theoretical exit also during battle phase (with CAV breakthrough e.g.)
3. A unit must not be ordered, so it can theoretical also exit with a retreat as passive/defensive player, because of a flag result of the attacking/active player.
4. The new exit/Breakthroug VB since extension 6: Then the player must ordered, must start on the edge of the board.
But you should general agree with your opponent, how you apply the exit notes in the played scenario.